Why you keep making the same mistakes – and how your personality plays a role.

Are you stuck in a loop? Here’s the thing: it’s not about willpower. It’s about how you’re wired. Let’s break the loop.

Apr 10, 2025

Why your personality repeats mistakes (even when you swear you won’t).

Your default habits are deeply connected to the way you process decisions, emotions, and challenges. Different personality types tend to fall into specific traps:

  • Overthinkers (introverts & thinkers) - You analyze decisions so much that you either:
    • Miss opportunities because you hesitate too long
    • Make a choice but instantly regret it
  • Impulsives (extroverts & perceivers) - You jump in too fast, without considering the long-term effects. Exciting in the moment, frustrating when consequences hit.
  • People-pleasers (feelers & judgers) - You say yes too much, avoid conflict, and let guilt guide decisions. The result? Burnout and resentment.
  • Chronic escape artists (perceivers & intuitives) - You chase new ideas, hobbies, or relationships to avoid facing what’s actually holding you back.

Sound familiar? If so, keep reading. It’s time to rewrite the script.

How to stop making the same mistakes (for real this time).

1. Catch yourself in the act

Most mistakes don’t happen in a vacuum. They follow a pattern - one that repeats unless you interrupt it. The next time you notice yourself repeating an old habit (like saying yes when you meant no, or avoiding a task), stop and ask:

  • Have I been here before?
  • What happened last time?
  • How did that turn out for me?

Bringing awareness to the habit is the first step toward change. Your personality type plays a massive role in shaping your habits, reactions, and decision-making.


2. Rewire your default response

Your personality naturally leans toward certain behaviors - but you can tweak them for better results.

Fix it based on your type:

  • Overthinkers: Set a deadline for decisions - perfection isn’t real.
  • Impulsives: Wait 24 hours before saying yes to anything big.
  • People-pleasers: Ask yourself: Am I doing this for me or for approval?
  • Escape artists: Stick to one project, hobby, or plan for a full month before switching.

Small shifts in thinking = big changes in outcome.


3. Get comfortable with discomfort

Change is uncomfortable. That’s why most people don’t do it. Your brain is wired to stick with what’s familiar - even if it’s not working. That’s why you keep texting your toxic ex, signing up for more work when you’re overwhelmed, or waiting until the last second to start something. Here's what to do instead:

  • Feel the discomfort - but don’t react to it.
  • Take one small action toward a different choice.
  • Remind yourself: I am rewiring my brain. This will get easier.

Discomfort isn’t a sign you’re failing - it’s proof you’re growing.


Meet the procrastinating creative.

Alex, an INFP, loves brainstorming new ideas. But every time a deadline approaches, he freezes. Instead of starting early, he waits until panic mode kicks in. Why, you might ask? Because his personality thrives on inspiration, but struggles with structure. The pressure of deadlines makes him feel trapped - so he avoids these tasks altogether.

What he can do to change this loop:

  • Break tasks into tiny steps, so it felt less overwhelming.
  • Schedule “creative warm-ups” before any big projects.
  • Set fake deadlines three days early to trick their brain.

In this case Alex would be able to finish a project without last-minute chaos - for the first time ever!

So how can you use this in your own life?

Ready to break free from your most frustrating habit? Try this:

  • Write down one mistake you keep repeating
  • Identify your personality pattern (overthinking? impulsive? people-pleasing?)
  • Pick one new strategy from this post and commit to it for a week

It’s not about a complete personality overhaul - it’s about small shifts that lead to real change.

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